Confessions of a Romantical

Emily B Gaga

2012-01-16T17:59:00.000-08:00

It's been awhile since I've done any updates on the tartlet! Well, she was super spoiled for Christmas this year (obvs) and even got her first Easy Bake Oven! Lucky bitch....

I got her this trench when I was in HK. SO CUTE!

2008 VS 2011 School photo. What a big girl!!!!!!

Getting her first mani!!!!!

Gave her my old TokiDoki bag. Fits her quite well!

Helping my dad shovel our driveway.

Hugging Momma Lee. Po-Po is tartlet's favorite!!!

JUST LIKE GOOD OL' AUNT MAGS!

Ask Yourself: Do I Suck?

2012-01-16T16:59:00.000-08:00

With the recent blow up of this article "Do Vancouver Men Suck?", it has gotten a lot of positive and negative comments. For me personally, I found it ridiculous. I can't speak for all, but some women need to open their Noir Lash-ified eyes and realize maybe it's not the men, maybe it's you.

I say this with experience as I once was one of those girls.

A lot of women (not just in this city) have this false sense of "entitlement" when starting a relationship. They think that the men they end up with should open every damn door they encounter, buy them lavish gifts to show how much they love them, have a body of a god, athletic, caring, friendly, confident, rich etc etc. The list goes on as it differs for everyone.

But have you ever thought what the men wanted? What can YOU offer to a guy? Let me tell you, being a former serial dater..men aren't that complex as women like to believe. Majority of men are simple beings and some crazy ass bitches just like to fuck with the idea and go "NOO...MEN ARE SO CONFUSING. WHAT THEY DO OR SAY MUST MEAN SOMETHING ELSE!!" No girl, no.

These are a few qualities that men want (from what I've gathered over the years) :

1) A woman who is comfortable in her own skin. Ever notice how the prettiest of girls have the lowest of all lows when it comes to confidence? Good example would be Kim K. Absolutely gorgeous but she has the confidence level of 0 VS her "ugly" (I don't think she is) sister Khloe. People say she's uggos but she couldn't care less what people would have to say about her looks. A man wants his woman who is comfortable with the way they are and look. None of that "I need a new pair of tits" or "I'M SO FAT!!"

2) A woman who can make her own money. Listen, 90% of men already think spending $100 on a pair of shoes is ridiculous..let alone $5000+ for a bag with 2 C's on it. Chances are if he's making his own $$$$, he's not going to spend that kinda money if he sees you in his future. A house, a family comes before all of that. However, if he's a with a woman that can afford the extra luxuries in life AND be an equal partner for his future...RESPECT.

3.) A woman who can hold her own. Clingy, and dependant= Not attractive. A man needs time for himself and his boys. If he can't spend time with you this weekend...don't freak out. DO YOU. Don't forget your friends, your family and who you were before him. A relationship should be dessert, not your main meal.

4.) A woman who RUSHES! (A continuation of #3) People who can't be alone..annoy me. We all know that one girl (or guy) who always needs to be a relationship because being single is SOOOO *sarcasm* scary. They start saying shit like "I better not be alone this Christmas..or worst Valentines Day" or "WHY CAN'T I FIND A GOOD GUY!?" when their idea of a good guy includes "Rich and Hot." I know this one girl who has gone through 3 different guys (a good "relationship" as she so calls it) within 1.5 years. When a person gets so freaking (in my eyes) desperate for love..they will date and fuck the next person that pays attention to them. Obviously you're not going to find something valuable when you treat yourself like trash.

I know, I know. Everyone has been giving their own 2cents on this article and it's getting overplayed (sorry) but just thought I'd join the party! :p

Justin LIEBSTER

2012-01-16T15:54:00.000-08:00

So apparently my blog is worthy of an award! LOL! Nominated by fellow blogger and girlfriend Maddy from A Little Petite this was very special!!! I first met Maddy in 2005 during my first year at Cap (actually through xanga) and read she was in her first year there as well so I left her a comment and we met up on campus a couple days later. To this day, everytime I listen to Feist 'Inside and Out' I think of Maddy as this was the song she had as her xanga background song! Random fact, and I'm pretty sure I've never told anyone until now. HAHA! Anyways, she was (and still is) one the sweetest girls I've ever met!

This award is for bloggers with under 200 followers. The rules are:

-Thank your Liebster Blog Award presenter on your blog.
-Link back to the blogger who awarded you.
-Copy & paste the blog award on your blog
-Reveal your 5 blog picks.
-Let them know you chose them by leaving a comment on their blog.

3 of my top blog reads with under 200 followers :)
1.) Adventures in Cooking
2.) A Mile in Her Heels
3.) Beautie Chips
4.) ........
5.) ........

2011-12-24T23:00:00.001-08:00

Christmas Break.
Hold up!

Wishing you and your loved ones a beautiful holiday and Happy New Year. <3

My Dimes

2011-12-17T23:13:00.000-08:00

Today I went to Castle Fun Park for the first time! It was Maricar's 24th birthday and instead of our usual dinner+club...we did things a little differently this year :) We've come to that age that clubbing is no longer a huge interest for us. Mainly because we get lazy getting ready and we are out of there by midnight because we're SO FREAKING TIRED!!!! I really don't know how people my age or older can still keep up with the weekly weekend parties. I mean good for you if you're still going strong..

We started off our early day at Olive Garden in Langley for some lunch. Super yums and I swear I could live off pasta. I am the biggest carb junkie--holla! After that we went straight to Abby and got our play cards for mini golf. My parents didn't like us going to these kinda places when we were young cause they thought it was a huge waste of money. It really is if you think about it...but I truly believe it's something every kid should try at least once. I think the closest thing to CFP I went to was Chuckie Cheese. Anyhow, like true fashion..I came in dead last! OBVIOUSLY. I am terrible when it comes to any type of sporting/gaming event and it's really no surprise since I have almost zero hand/eye coordination. But that's okay, I had a really great time and it was nice to do something different. I really hope this becomes an annual tradition..if not for Car's birthday than at least something we can do together. It's really a treat nowadays when I can see my friends and we all get together.

Even though we were a group of 12 girls back in HS, it has dwindled down to a core group of 5. I love all my friends (ABSOLUTELY LOVE), but these 4 girls have seen it all with me for the past couple years--especially since we graduated. The highs, the lows...from relationships, birthdays, late night stalks, the CRYING, the throw ups, boobs and other unmentionables, tears from laughing, E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G. We've been there for each other in every imaginable way possible and I can always count on them to give it to me straight. I am so blessed.

CD Review: Drake 'Take Care'

2011-12-17T22:10:00.000-08:00

Drake, Take Care. Courtesy of KillerHipHop.com

Read this before you continue*

This was Drake's 2nd album (4?5th? cd if you include his mixtapes before he got famous) and it was a perfect follow up to his first. I've been a fan of his since he released his first single "Replacement Girl" with Trey Songz back in 07; His voice was raw and unpolished unlike the voice we're familiar with today sounding a bit like Weezy. I was suppose to watch him in concert a year or 2 ago but couldn't make it since my concert partner had to work the late shift. That's okay though--I'm sure he'll be back!

With this album I found that he was trying to take a softer approach. There were a lot of singing from him this time which was fantastic because I love his singing voice. A few of his songs I found were him explaining his story on how he came to be, what people expect of him and what people think he should be, his constant battle about his terrible father, and his rollercoaster relationships.

This is kind of off topic, but whenever I hear the collab of 'Waving Flag' by K'naan..I swear my ears are on high alert trying to listen to his part when he slowly sings the melody. It's ridiculous, really.

Of course we're all familiar with his recent tracks:
3. Headlines
5. Take Care featuring Rihanna
6. Marvin's Room (Chris Brown does a great remix btw)
which I don't even believe to begin to scratch the surface of the amazingness of this album. Great songs, but honestly way better songs on here.

To make note of:

1. Over My Dead Body. OH-MY-EFFIN-GOD. THE perfect song to lead into a cd. Along with the "procedure" on how I listen to an album..the first song/track is equally important. On his first album 'Thank Me Later' his first song was 'Fireworks' featuring Alicia Keys. AMAZING. For me, the first track needs to captivate me emotionally and it should set the tone on how the rest of the cd will be for me. This song featured fellow Canadian artist, Chantal Kreviazuk as well.

2. Shot for Me. Did I mention that I LOVE this singing voice? LOL. I love a man who can alternate the highs and lows of their voice. This song is kind of a like "FUCK YOU" to his past (ex gfs...haters even) for not seeing how amazing he was to them. Great song to relate to if you have ever had someone tell or made you feel like nothing.

Fave line in this song is....*drum roll*

"May your neighbours respect you, trouble neglect you, angels protect you, and heaven accept you."

4. Crew Love. This was a great collab with Toronto native, The Weeknd. Now you're probs wondering (like I was) who the eff is "The Weeknd" and why isn't he getting the cred he deserves? Great voice and sounds a bit like The Dream/Chris Brown. I have to say...I think I paid more attention to him than Drake. :p Take a listen to his remix of 'Trust Issue's UGHHH SO GOOD

10. Make Me Proud featuring Nicki Minaj. Everyone knows I'm not a huge Nicki Minaj fan but I have to admit..she collabs well. Super catchy chorus "IMSO IMSO IMSO PROUD OF YOU" and I love that background noise that kinda sounds like a windtunnel/water going through a tube. Some Science World kinda shiz.

13. Doing It Wrong featuring Stevie Wonder. By far my MOST favorite track on the whole album. This song is about how people stay in relationships despite knowing how wrong they are for each other. They can do all these things to try to avoid the problem but it has to come to an end sooner or later.

" We live in a generation of, not being in love, and not being together.
But we sure make it feel like we’re together.
Because we’re scared to see each other with somebody else."

And plus, that mini harmonica part by Stevie is absolutely beautiful.

14. The Real Her featuring Andre 3000 and Lil Wayne. No comments really. Great song (obvs) but it's a super chill song that I like listening to when I'm driving.

17. Practice. HOW CAN YOU NOT LIKE THIS SONG?! It freaking samples a Juvenile classic- Back That Ass Up. No words.

CD Reviews

2011-12-17T22:09:00.000-08:00

Been working on this post for a couple weeks but forgot about it. Here it is!!!

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I am probably the 1% of the population that still buys cds. Some people collect stamps, coins, shoes (...this is me actually), bottle caps...etc...but I like to collect the old fashioned compact disc. I'd say majority of musicians nowadays still put out an album but I don't think their sales could compare to what iTunes could do for them since everyone and their grandma has an ipod/mp3 player of some sort.
Anyhow, I went to HMV Downtown last week with Michael and I got snubbed by an employee. We were discussing the closing of the store and I said how I think I'm probably the only one that still purchases cds..then he goes "Yeah..oh people in their 40s." Then it got me thinking...most people who DO buy from iTunes probably only buys a couple songs but never the full album. What I love about cracking open a new cd is being able to hear the artists work in its entirety. So that's where I come in and give a LEGIT review on an album. None of that "Oh yeah..his/her album was the best" when the person probably only heard 2 songs. I hate that...I really do.

So first things first, I have a procedure on how I listen to my cds. Once I buy an album the first thing I do when I get in the car is rip it open and pop it in. I listen to the WHOLE album (without skipping) TWICE before skipping or repeating any song I like or don't like. Then if I remember I look at the album jacket after. I find that I can get biased on how I feel about the songs if I read their dedications for some reason. I don't know what it is..that's just how my brain works. ---Another thing I do is I choose to listen to the for the first few times when I'm travelling on the road back home or to the office. Pausing frequently with a new album for me takes away the "connection" I have.

With that said..here starts my first cd review. Drake-Take Care. NEXT POST :)

Material is Only Temporary

2011-12-14T15:11:00.000-08:00

SURPRISE...I have officially taken myself off of protection mode. I have been "hiding" for the past 6 months because I didn't feel comfortable with certain turn of events. I won't go too much into it but yes, I'm back!!!!!

So the reason why I posted this particular tweet is because..someone actually favorited it (and a particular encounter below)! It made me feel super happy and yes..it is a bit silly to be excited over something so trivial..but it means quite a bit to me. The reason being because I have been struggling with my own personal demons as of late and I really needed a slice of humble pie.

Although I am a huge fan of the Christmas holidays..it's also the time of month when we give into greed. Greed over what we "want" under the tree and sometimes even what we feel we "deserve." I shouldn't be one to judge since I am quite picky when it comes to the material things...I admit it..I have expensive taste. But never have I once demanded these things from loved ones but rather provide it for myself. But sometimes..I do get a bit greedy especially around this time of year. It isn't a good thing and I don't feel proud of it. I'll be honest, I get a bit envious when I see girls saying how their bf is going to buy them some designer bag/shoes/trips etc. But why?!

I have been very blessed to be given the life I have. I thank my lucky stars each day but sometimes it's hard not to feel materialistic. And when I do..this is when I need to take a step back and take a breather. I remind myself constantly that "Material is only temporary," because it is. We get this emotional high when we are able to buy or receive things but if you really take the time to think about it..it means nothing. Nothing if we don't appreciate the REAL things. Family, friends, life. I really don't need a new pair of shoes nor do I need another designer outfit in my closet. But I do need the love and support from the people I go home to everyday.

The whole reason why I posted this today is because I recently met the most humbling couple I've ever encountered. -----About 2 weeks ago we sold one of our listings, ...a $7+million penthouse to be exact. Now I've heard many great things about the Sellers as they have been long time clients of my dad and I finally got to meet them after work one evening. Now typically...you'd automatically think these people would be decked out in all brands possible and have the personality of a snooty bitch; I mean..it's not everyday someone can just play around with $7M in their pockets. But they were the complete opposites. They were the most down to earth people I've ever met and they dressed like the everyday working mom and dad. No bling bling flashyness...they were real. 100% authentic in their character and life. This may sound "cliche" but it really opened my eyes in terms of my selfish thoughts and wants.

They were my slice of humble pie.

PS. Just want to add that I am in no way trying to insult anyone who does spoil their s/o etc or like the finer things in life. Lets be real here, I am the epitome of loving the finer things in life (if you haven't noticed the abundance of posts on shopping) but sometimes I let the material things impair my judgement and sight. This was simply a self reflection of myself and to improve the way that I am.

A Four Seasons Christmas (Picture Heavy)

2011-12-12T16:30:00.000-08:00

Last night was Christmas party #2! It was for Concord's annual party at the Four Seasons and had a ball! My parents weren't initially going to go since it's been a good 11 years of the "same" party for them but I managed to convince them! This year I decided not to buy any new dresses because I usually end up wearing them once then never again. It's a huge waste of money and lets be real here...it's like a wedding. We buy a beautiful dress only to wear it for a couple hours then get stashed in the back of our closets. Considering I went all out on presents this year I just chose dresses I've worn previously. For Michael's I wore the pink NU dress from last year's CP's party...and this year for CP I wore this black v neck dress from Le Chateau I got years ago when I was a skinny ass bitch.

This year instead of having live music CP opted for a photobooth type thing. I personally LOVE these things because everyone can just be silly and have fun! We took a couple of these photos and they're definitely going in our memory box. There wasn't anything too special about dinner..a la carte style...but man..I felt like I barely ate anything! I definitely think Fairmont did a better job with the quality and taste of the food but can't complain I guess. After dinner and dessert we had prize draws and I ended up winning $100 for Chapters!! Funny because I just ordered some books last week from there and was thinking how weird it'd be if I won this gift. And then I hear.. "Maggie Lee.."

Absolutely LOVE this photo! LOL!

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!

A Little Spring in my Step

2011-12-12T16:11:00.000-08:00

I was feeling a little bit Spring when I threw this outfit together last Friday for work. With the Winter chill embracing us it felt necessary to get some colour on to really pep myself up. Nothing is worse than feeling gray and lazy on a Friday afternoon.

Blessed with: Talula B Blazer, Wilfred tank, Talula B highwaisted pants

Aldo belt, Nine West leather pumps, Deux Lux Duffle

Bracelets: Holly Boutique, Barefoot Contessa, HK

I rarely (and I mean it) buy anything from Clone City (Aritzia) nowadays but my whole entire outfit was from there! LOL!

Cozy Knits and Bracelets

2011-12-06T16:53:00.001-08:00

For the past 5 years I have dedicated my mornings and afternoons in skirts, trousers, blouses and heels. It's all part of the job but I have really grown to enjoy the freedom I have nowadays when it comes to my work attire. Although I do have to look "business casual" I can definitely get away with statement pieces that may not have been allowed at my old company. Take today for example:

Blessed with: Covet sweater tunic, Work Custom jeans, Vince Camuto booties

Jeans....a SWEATER?! What kind of office is this!? But really...it's really a treat to be able to wear something more casual when I'm here in the office. When I'm feeling a bit lazy..this is something I'll throw on if I have zero appointments and don't have to see anyone that day. I feel very lucky!

I will say though..now that I'm looking at this photo..I wish I had paired this outfit with my Nine West pumps. The booties look a bit awkward with my jeans but I guess I will know better for next time. :p I picked up this super luxe sweater from Boudoir last week. It was either this one or a cropped knit sweater which would have looked KILLER with my Mackage Kenya. It shall be my next purchase.

I've really been into bracelets ever since I was a kid and I love how stacking has become such a big trend. The mix and match look gives any outfit a bit of edge if you're looking for some extra accessories.

Also, since it was Michael's Christmas party on the weekend I had to do my nails. Now I'm all about getting prim and proper...(love my pedi's!) but I refuse to put my fingernails into that kind of grooming. Fake nails scare me, especially when I hear horror stories of their fake nails breaking so bad it breaks their original nail too. UGH! And it just looks DAMN ugly when one of your nails have fallen off (and can't get an appt to fix it) but the rest of your nails are still intact. However, I'm not hating on those who go the fake nails route..it's just not my cup of tea.

Anyhow, back to the nail grooming. So since I am not a fan of fake nails I usually do my own. It saves money and it's not that hard to do once you get the hang of it. For mine I used:

1. OPI Nail Envy as a base coat

2. Essie's "Adore A Ball" as the pinky tone to the french

3. White sparkle polish I picked up from Hong kong

4. Essie's "Marshmallow" for the french tip

I will say though, try to do your nails at night. DO it after your bedtime routine (flossing, brushing your teeth, after your shower, drying your hair, washing your face, etc etc) or else there's a high chance you'll make a dent in your freshly painted nails. It's the worst thing EVER!!!!!!!

A Fairmont Christmas...

2011-12-04T21:48:00.001-08:00

...kinda.

Her: NU dress, Christian Louboutin New Simple 120MM

Him: Stage of Playlord suit, Aldo shoes

Ah, yes. December has finally graced us with its chilly weather, holiday cheer and of course the anticipation for CHRISTMAS! Possibly my most fave holiday of the year, December doesn't scream December without the Christmas parties!! Yesterday was party number 1 out of 6? 7? that I have lined up this year. Number 1 was for Michael's company party at the Fairmont (Pacific Rim). Beautiful hotel inside and out..and a GREAT residential building attached right next to it. I had the honour of having a listing here and omgosh, the finishings are JUST exquisite.

His office isn't the biggest but it was a party for about 45 and the food was super yums. It was buffet style with the yummiest scalloped potatoes (that was present last year so I was super happy to see it again) and portobello mushroom ravioli I've ever had. Actually, Urban Fare carries fresh pastas in one of their showcases and their portobello mushroom ravioli's is also to die for! MM! I think I'm gonna have to buy some this week for dinner. Anyhow--back to the party. It was open bar and 20 year old me would have been ALL over that but I've come quite far since then. Alcohol rarely makes an appearance in my mouth nowadays all thanks to my 23rd birthday. But of course..I couldn't pass up a good glass of Moet. Perfect!

The party was fun but I was ready to pass out by around 10pm. Luckily we got a room overnight, all thanks to his boss who comps their employees stay. Not a lot of companies will do that so that was really nice of them to do so. The room we got was a corner suite with wrap around windows and we had a gorgeous view of the water by Canada Place. Another reason why I was so happy to stay here was because Fairmont PR is one of the possible locations we've been thinking about for our wedding. I've always wanted an outdoor wedding but it might not be the most ideal option considering we live in Vancouver and it'd probably cost a lot more to find an outside venue vs a ballroom.

I will say though...I wasn't exactly the happiest when we checked in. It's nothing major but I'm like the biggest bitch when it comes to POOR CUSTOMER SERVICE. It's my biggest pet peeve and I truly believe you should NOT be in CS if you do not know how to deal with people and issues that may arise.

--Okay, so there are 2 reception desks at the Fairmont.    Everyone was lining up at the desk on the right so we followed suit.   Both desks were busy at the time so we waited behind the 1st group in the line. The desk on the left cleared but we were still waiting in line since the desk on the left never gestured for the next group. Then Michael noticed the desk of the left said RECEPTION and the desk we were waiting infront of said FAIRMONT GOLD. Michael asked me "is this line for only Fairmont Gold!?" I didn't know so I told him to ask her since the group infront of me was still waiting and not doing anything. Michael walked over and the girl said she could help him. I followed suit.

Then the desk on the right waved the group infront of me over then proceeded to say:

"Oh, that gentleman just CUT IN FRONT OF YOU. I'm so sorry about that!"

I heard this and couldn't believe what this girl said! As she finished saying that the group looked over (since it didn't even seem like they knew what was going on), as did she, and they saw me looking. I wasn't going to take that fucking crap from her so I said loudly:

"Actually, we thought that line was strictly for FAIRMONT GOLD so that's why we came over to ask if she could help us."   (which we REALLY did!!)

Then the girl, looking surprised said:

"OMG, I'm sorry about the confusion Miss."
Anyways, Michael was taking a little bit with the check in process so I was still waiting behind him when the group on the right had already finished. I saw the girl walk out from behind her desk to hand them the keys and as they left she walked over to me and said:

"Again, I'm sorry about the confusion with the Fairmont Gold and Reception sign, miss," then patted me on my shoulder.

I just smiled and nodded.   It's not even the confusion of the signs that pissed me off..it was the fact that the girl just assumed we were being rude and tactless. I'm not 10 years old, I'm a grown ass woman with manners. For someone to just strip me of my character infront of strangers I was ready to freaking blow. I know it's not a big deal but it bothered me big time.

BAH! Anyhow, enjoy the photos!!!!!

Flirty Skirts

2011-12-01T17:05:00.001-08:00

I went shopping at my all time fave, Boudoir yesterday cause the dates got messed up for their Holiday party (which is actually today). Anyhow, good finds and good times were had with the help of Kevin (holla!) helping me find some great pieces for the everyday and the holidays. Yes, it's true. Our girl Jill left a few months ago but don't sweat it--customer service is still top notch. Everyone here is knowledgable; knowing what to pair certain pieces with what or giving you a honest opinion if something is looking great...or not so great.

Anyhow, I ended up picking up 3 items that I could not part with! I'll do posts on the invidual items (once I get a chance to wear it) but today..it's all about this 212 skirt. Super girly and super flirty. And how perfect that this was the LAST one available and in my size?! 212 makes great quality pieces, and I had the fortune of finding this super cute 212 dress for one of our Christmas party last year. Also, bought at Boudoir.

At Michael's company Christmas party

Blessed with: Cour Carre Trench, Jacob turtleneck, 212 skirt, Ann Taylor pumps

How would you pair your flirty skirt? I would love to wear this with a cropped blazer (which I don't have...yet), and a cute pair of flats. Or maybe with a soft textured rose colored blouse..or something with some animal print. Hmmm.

I'd Choose Family

2011-11-29T14:08:00.001-08:00

Besides the love I have for my job (and shopping), the...idea? logic? of relationships is something I am really “passionate” about. Whether it’s about family, friends, clients or the single guy or girl…I love exercising my mind when it comes to why we act the way we do when faced with the R word. It excites and it motivates me to become a better daughter, sister, friend and significant other.
Anyhow, on RS I actively read up on the Relationships Forum. I like the idea of being able to view valid and well thought out (most of the time) opinions of others when a certain topic is brought up. Recently one was about how this guy’s family does not like his girlfriend. It was due to race and how the girlfriend apparently “uses” her boyfriend. There’s probably a lot missing from the story itself but the general consensus was either:
A. Who care’s what your family thinks? You gotta ask yourself are you going to marry your family…or your significant other?

B. Blood is thicker than water
Every relationship is different and although I can see both sides of "live your own effin live, you're settling down with your s/o not your family" and "listen to your family...etc"..for me I'd choose my family.

Years ago..and I mean YEARS ago..I was dating this guy whom my family despised. I never really understood why because I thought he was the best thing to ever have happened to me and I could overlook the "flaws" because he made me so happy. My parents didn't like him because he didn't share the same goals as I did, have the same family values and he was just an overall negative impact on my life. I was already working towards my career, came from a loving family while he was (and still is last I heard) working a highschool job with no motivation or ambition and he had little to zero relations with his family cause it was broken. We were complete opposites.

Long story short, we broke up but only ended up getting back together 6 months later. Momma Lee was FURIOUS when she found out and demanded me to leave him or I could consider Momma Lee no more. I was devastated that my family would make me choose between them and a guy I thought I was head over heels in “like” with. I didn’t know any better because I really DIDN’T know any better. In the end I chose my family because my conscience would have never let me choose a man over them but that did’t change the fact that I didn’t speak to Momma Lee for a month cause I was so angry.

But of course, the stars aligned and I found out the guy already had a new girlfriend within a month after we broke up. It didn’t really shock me I guess because he had done this to me before. But by this time I felt stupid ALL over again and even more stupid that I gave up my relationship with my mother for some loser. I know now that I could never put aside the feelings and opinions of my parents. What they have to say and feel matters to me and I don’t think it’s being unreasonable to feel that way.

I’m a firm believer that if more than one person in your life (a friend, family member) feels someone is not right for you…they probably aren’t. I don’t think it’s being swayed by others…but considering the care a loved one has for you and your best interests at heart.

You Know It's Real...

2011-11-28T22:52:00.001-08:00

It's true, I was sitting at his computer when he walked in after his shower and the first thing he said to me was "You look beautiful," and kissed me on the forehead. Then he baked me some cookies when we were snuggling on the couch watching tv.

I'm so lucky.

TLC 'Virgin Diaries'

2011-11-28T16:47:00.001-08:00

I saw this video from a tweet and within a couple hours..this video has gone completely VIRAL it seems! TLC is a hit or miss to me sometimes...but this looks like it'll be a good one!!!!

Read article here

I sent the link to Michael and this is what he replied me with:

But in all seriousness,guys...there's nothing wrong with abstinence. At this day and age, we have created this image that sex is everything in a relationship when really it's just a minor slice out of the whole relationship pie. (See what I did there—..Pie…sex..HAHA!...) There’s nothing wrong if a girl (or a guy) wants to wait until marriage nor is there anything wrong with having sex before it as well. I guess the media is to blame for taking away the sacredness that is sex. When we were younger our parents told us we should only do it with the person we love but then that all seems like a distant memory when we got shows like Jersey Shore (my guilty pleasure btw) showcasing drunk ass chicks going home with complete strangers. Shows like that (as enticing as they are to watch) are saying it’s okay to fuck every cock or pussy we encounter because we want to have fun...or we were drunk. Or both. Whichever.

If you are waiting, good for you. Do it when you are ready and willing, not because you want to look cool.

If you are active, good for you as well! There's nothing better than connecting on an intimate level with someone you love.

Love for the Ears

2011-11-24T22:25:00.001-08:00

One of my current faves by the one and only... Lady Loves Cool James!!

Overnight Celebrity

2011-11-22T17:04:00.001-08:00

I had a good laugh last week. My brother left me a msg on FB and said he was one of the front pages of his school's website. Friends have been saying this photo reminds them of some guy taking guests around a resort. LOL!

AUA MED

ALL I NEED NOW IS THAT DAMN WATCH!

2011-11-22T16:28:00.001-08:00

-ala Destiny's Child "Independant Women" read here

Yes, it has finally happened. I am now monetarily tied to a square box for the next 25 years. This has been my dream since I was 21 and 3 years later..I can finally check this off of my life list. At 24, I feel like I have accomplished everything I have ever told myself I would. Buy a car, find my career, be in love, and now a homeowner. Don't get me wrong, I have had a lot of heartbreaks and heartaches along the way to get to where I am..but it has 100% worth it.

With that said..PLEASE RENT MY APARTMENT!!! MSG ME FOR DEETS!

*Renting it out so I can add funds to my actual home projected to complete ..4 years from now?!* :P

Love for the Ears

2011-11-21T21:55:00.000-08:00

Possibly one of my most fave songs from the 90s.

A Little Bit Leopard..

2011-11-15T21:06:00.001-08:00

Blazer: Butter Hong Kong Blouse: Le Chateau Tights: Talula Booties: Vince Camuto

Hat: Aldo Scarf: H&M

BBM

2011-11-14T21:48:00.001-08:00

Bad Badtz Maru (aka Michael--I seriously think they look alike..no joke) watching Hangover 2 in our hotel room. Ballahhhh.

Missing the fams...

2011-11-10T16:34:00.001-08:00

Pretty much sums up my fams: I'm always ready with a pose, dad and his LOVE for fruits, Momma Lee is about to burst into a scream, tartlet clinging onto her pao pao for dear life, Adam ...just being Adam

These are some photos we took in 2008 during the Christmas holiday. We had just moved back into our "house" after a year of construction, it was the tartlet's first Christmas and this was when I was a skinny ass bitch.

It's now 2011..our house is now too big for the amount of people living in it, the tartlet is now 3, my brother lives in Antigua for school, and I am back to being a chubass bitch. One thing that hasn't changed though is the love we have for one another.

..I really miss my family.

Joe Forte's for 14

2011-11-07T16:20:00.000-08:00

Jacket: Michael Kors, Top: BB Dakota, Jeans: Work Custom Jeans,

Bag: Louis Vuitton Alma, Shoes: Christian Louboutin

On Saturday Michael took me to Joe Forte's for our anni. I would go into detail but you can read my experience on Yelp. I'm really disappointed especially since I've always had a good time here. However, can't say I wouldn't go back because I really do love it too much. But maybe I'll give it a month or so to let me forget. Hmmm...

Even though we had a disappointing time we agreed that JF's is a possible venue for our engagement party. Something for family and close friends on the top floor. Provence and my parents house are also on the list. No matter what though..an oyster bar will be had!!!!! I fricken LOVEEEEE oysters--especially when it's raw. A lot of people don't like the texture or taste but my dad being a true foodie and has always gotten us to enjoy and experience different things. And I'm glad he did!

THE meal.

After dinner Michael and I walked around Robson (since stores were still open) and I ended up buying a parka at ...*dun dun dunnn* Clone City AKA Aritzia. I haven't bought anything from a "mall" store in ages so you could imagine my OMG moment.

Michael complained that I don't have a real jacket for winter so he was all for it when I told him I liked it. The SA was rather helpful too so I just bought it. It's super warm and comfy but my only beef is I wish the pockets were angled so I can tuck my hands in when it's cold. The one that does have the angled pockets didn't tickle my fancy as much..not sure what it was but the pockets on this one is just more visually pleasing. Another plus on this jacket, it's eco-friendly!!! Made from Hemp and recycle Polyester fibres. It's like I'm wearing a tree.

How I Met My Hubnut

2011-11-01T16:56:00.000-07:00

I admit it. I am one of those people who will ask you and your bf/gf/husband/wife etc how you 2 meet if I am still getting to know you. I don't think it's an invasion of privacy (but if it is to you, please tell me..I will understand!) but more of a curious hopeless romantic question I have. I LOVE a good love story (or maybe even lack thereof--still good!!).

With that said, I thought I'd share mine today since it is kind of a funny one.

Well, today November 1st...is the first day I met Michael...3 years ago (2008 if you're math illiterate like me). 3 years ago I was 21, and this was during my party-party phase. And by party..I mean party. The night before was Halloween with 2 of my dimes at Atlantis (aka Boss now...ugh...or maybe it was Boss by then..hmm) with some friends we went to HS with. We got the works (bottle service...etc etc) and let me lay it out for you all..we were freaking done by the end of the night. But this was also during my phase when I dated grade A losers. I ended up fighting with this guy I was seeing and remember crying the way home. I was a fucking mess.

Fast forward to the next day, I had a staff dinner for REVscene (holla..) DT later that night. I was hungover and feeling like blah..but decided I had to go because I already said yes and I just wanted to be out after all that LG drama I put myself into. I arrived late and ended up sitting on the very end of the table with a couple empty seats next to me. I settled in and was chatting with some friends when some guy pulled the seat out next to me and sat down.

"Hi..I'm Mike.."

First thing I thought to myself was, "who the eff are you ? You look like a douchebag." There he was in his Ed Hardy/Smet/Christian Audigier-esque gear and a Gucci man bag. I barely spoke a word to him all night except when I asked if he could help me with my phone (cause I knew he was a phone guy). He couldn't help me. Douchebag AND unhelpful. But hey, he was nice.

Anyways, a couple hours later passed and dinner was done. We said our goodbyes as a group and I never saw him again. ...That is until August 29, 2010 when I bumped into him at REVscene's Summer Meet.

I was manning the RS booth with some of my RS bffs when I saw Michael from afar. I didn't know it was him although I thought he looked really familiar. I even whispered to my friend Chris "who is that hot guy!? I KNOW HIM..BUT WHO IS HE?!" Okay..maybe not whisper but I had to know. He eventually came up to our tables and I thought to myself.."okay..there's no better time than now to talk to him. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE!! *imaginary pat on my back*

So then and there I blurted out, "HEY..HEY YOU! ...I know you. Who are you?!"

And someone in the back answers for him and says "It's Mike! Don't you remember!?" And I'm blinking my eyes like "..who?"

Douchebag Mike is Hot Guy Mike. Same guy, different stages of Mike.

To this day the both of us still laugh at our first impression of each other. From what he tells me, he always thought I was cute but never thought I would ever go for a guy like him. (How wrong was he?) It's really funny to think back on how I was sitting right beside the man of my dreams but I had no idea. The guy who would one day make me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world and love me more than life itself. *teary eyes*

2011-10-27T16:43:00.000-07:00

SUP?!

2011-10-27T16:34:00.000-07:00

Everyone that knows me, knows I'm anti-Minaj (except for this song..absolutely love Superbass)..but this was TOO cute not to post. Goes to show you how pure and innocent children can be. AH, love.

My BB Dakota

2011-10-24T17:39:00.000-07:00

Last Friday I was running some errands before the weekend and stopped into Fine Finds as my last stop. I haven't been in here since I left for Hong Kong and was excited to see what Fall pieces had come in. Lots of cable knits I'm seeing this Fall. Not really my style (it just doesn't suit me) but that's okay.

Anyhow, I'm always on the lookout for cute tops because my choices on bottoms are quite basic so it will go well with everything. My latest find is this BEAUTIFUL BB Dakota blouse that I just had to get. First of all:

I LOVE drapey and oversized shirts. I'm not exactly a size 0 (although I was a 4 at one point in my 20s) so I love shirts that can hide my tummy real well.
It's all about comfort. I want to be able to move in my clothes. I'm always on the go to my appointments and meetings and the last thing I want to do is feel trapped in my own clothes. It's stifling sometimes and lets face it..I work in Yaletown. Walking is much more convenient due to the fact that everywhere I go is within walking distance AND I don't have to give myself a headache with parking and feeding the meter. With that said, you get sweaty REALLLLLLL fast. Even on a chill afternoon.
Pretty attracts me. And this blouse is definitely pretty.

Role-Me

2011-10-18T22:42:00.000-07:00

I think it's time. But with a silver face.

I've never been a huge watch person but the older I get, the more I see the need for a watch. Lets face it, relying on your cell phone isn't always the best and it just looks more professional style wise. I personally believe that a timeless piece such as a Rolex will last for ages and this is something I can pass onto my children. I've been window shopping here and there but haven't made any concrete decisions yet. However, this one above is something I'm quite interested in looking more into as I don't plan on getting one until my birthday! (PS. Every year I buy myself one gift for my bday)

Another thing I've found is, the older I get...the pickier I get when it comes to my purchases. Good thing? Bad thing? Pros and Cons for both I guess.

Father's Daughter..or Mother's Daughter?

2011-10-18T14:37:00.000-07:00

This week I've had 4 different people ask me if I am related to my dad during my appointments. Normally we don't tell the other agent I am my dad's daughter but man....there's no hiding it! I usually just introduce myself with my first name and then BAM. "Are you his daughter? You look JUST LIKE HIM!"

Now..I've heard mixed reviews. Some people say I look more like Momma Lee and some say I look like my dad. So which is it? I personally think I have my mom's upperhalf of her face and my dad's bottom half of his face. But you be the judge.

One time in HK (when I was...18?) my great grandma's hairdresser saw me sitting in the Lee's pharmacy and said "..Mimi?!" Then my aunt had to politely tell him that I was her daughter. He probably hadn't seen my mom since she was 19?

So..I don't know. I guess I do have more of my dad's features? Hummm...

2011-10-17T22:32:00.000-07:00

Modern Vintage Damien Oxford from Holly Boutique

Okay, Holly is possibly my most fave store (besides Boudoir) because:

Holly carries A+ quality clothing. A++ actually.
The pieces you find here are up to date when it comes trends. If I need something current, Holly will have it.
You will never feel like you're gonna walk out like a clone (Aritzia...sorry!!! I still love Wilfred though).
Holly carries a rainbow of brands that I've grown to love.
When Holly has a sale...it's A SALE. None of that $5 off crap when you spend $100+.
There's an actual Holly behind "Holly." (I love you, Holls!)
(So check Holly out the next time you're in Gas town! You will love it!!)

Recently I bought these super cute oxfords and have been toying with different ideas on how to wear it. I've only worn them once so far and hopefully I'll be able to fit in a couple more wears before our weather turns into hell. Even though I've been told that these shoes are waterproof....it really is a spring/summer shoe. The color, the fabric (LEATHER BTW)..etc.

I love how in today's society, we will google their questions. From "Am I dying?" "How to cut a pineapple? ...you will seriously find EVERYTHING on the WWW; which thus led me to google "How to wear Oxfords"

Style Bakery: How to Wear Oxfords

2011-10-17T16:39:00.000-07:00

In reply to the previous post on the whole engagements/wedding thing...LOL..I just had to post this.

I've known Carollyne ever since I was ..4? 5? when I moved here from the Peg. She is definitely one of my childhood superfriends so it's hard to get certain things past her. Such as the reply above to my quote

"With that said...here are a few ideas I have in mind. Obviously I've had these ideas since I was probably 12...but that's okay!"

Yes, it's true. I really did have a cup (mug, really) where my face was photoshopped onto a bride. Basically the story is, we were in San Francisco visiting relatives and during one of our touristy stops we saw that this store could photochop your face onto anything. Shirts, placemats, blankets, calendars, MUGS, etc. Anyways, I found this gorgeous "background" of a bride with curly hair (think early 90s era), a floral wreath on her head while holding a bouquet of flowers. So the photographers/graphic designers (at the time) took a photo of my face and cropped it into the empty hole of that pic. TA-DA! The birth of the wedding cup.

I don't have a photo of it..but I do know it's floating around somewhere in the Lee palace.

2011-10-12T16:50:00.000-07:00

Facebook Status: __________ is engaged/married!

Is it just me...or is everyone getting hitched lately? This status that has been popping up on my newsfeed for the past few months and it has gotten Michael and I thinking. We haven't been together for THAT long...(13 months..but who's counting?) but it has definitely been a conversation piece lately. I feel like this time around..I'm not as afraid to have a conversation about this like I did the in the past because I know myself a lot better and I know what I want this time around. Same with him. (it's nice being on the same page)

I have every intention to make create a life with him, but I am in no rush to do so. One thing my family asked us quite often when we were in Hong Kong was.."When are you guys getting married?" And I truthfully answered "maybe 4 years from now."

Why 4 years? Well...to be honest..I personally believe an engagement/marriage should be when both parties are ready. And by ready I mean education, careers, financial stability, mindset, etc. I feel like there are so many people that just get engaged or married for the hell of it without having a clear mindset of what they want. I've seen marriages fail (trust me..it hits close to home), all because of "in the moment" feelings and/or no map to where they want to be. I can't speak for everyone but this is just how I personally feel. I want to be able to afford a roof over our heads..a place where we can call home, I want to be able to know we are going to be able to support each other when our emotions get the best of us and knowing he can be a father to my children. A marriage is not a girlfriend/boyfriend ordeal..it's a life long partnership.

With Michael going back to school, this is not exactly the time to get married. I really want him to focus and do well because in the long run it's going to benefit us. Although I feel financially stable it's definitely not enough to cover the both of us and I know these few extra years will help me build up what I've already started. Right now, I am not ready to do so when I know I can give and do the best for my family 4-5 years from now.

With that said...here are a few ideas I have in mind. Obviously I've had these ideas since I was probably 12...but that's okay!

San Francisco Wedding Planner

Cupcakes Take the Cake

Christian Louboutin Madame Butterfly Pumps

The idea of an outdoor wedding reception came from watching "My Best Friends Wedding" with Julia Roberts. I love the idea of being under this huge tent decorated with romantic lighting on a warm Summer night and everyone having a great time. The balloons in the picture add a nice touch..something I'd do for sure but I'm still deciding. Theme colours will be: White and Yellow...Gold.....I haven't made a final decision on this yet. :p Dinner..I don't even know. My parents actually asked me if I would ever want a Chinese banquet dinner (I said most likely not) only because I think the chances of a Chinese resto catering to an outdoor wedding is quite slim. But who knows....I'm sure Gingeri might be up for the challenge. Maybe.

CUPCAKES are all the rage right now. And lets be real here....I don't want to spend $500+ on a wedding when we probably won't even finish half of it. And I hear it's tradition that the bride and groom has to freeze the top of the cake and eat it on their 1 year anni as a married couple. Although I don't see a huge deal eating something frozen a year later (..well maybe just a little) I don't think there's a chance Michael will eat something 365 days later. Probable chances of freezer burn is quite high..and who knows when we'd actually throw the cake into the freezer before it starts going bad? A day later? 2? Anyhow, cupcakes seems like it's a good idea cause we can make it a bit smaller than the average cupcake so nothing will be wasted!

Even though I've planned out 90% of my wedding in my mind...the wedding dress is still up in the air. I don't know how my body will be like years from now..nor do I know if my tastes will change. But I do know I want simplicity when it comes to my dress. Clean lines, and minimal design. Also...I don't know if I'm going to buy my dress. Maybe rent? Hmmm. Spending $2500+ on a dress I'm only going to be able to wear once (and for approximately 9 hours) doesn't seem all that appealing to me. However..I will spend $800+ for a pair of shoes. I can justify splurging on a pair of shoes because I can wear them over and over again. Granted I'll only be able to wear these during Spring and Summer....but that's okay. I will add them to my collection of designer goods that I'll be passing down to my daughter. ..Yes.

Wedding Photos. One of my good friends, Tomasz, is an amazing photographer. I've seen his passion flourish into his fulltime career and I am SO happy for him. But as promised a long time ago, he is to be a guest at my wedding so he will take my engagement photos. And might I add he is multi-talented? Check out this cinemagraph he created.

Tomasz Wagner MANANETWORK

And of course, the big day will be shot by (I hope she'll be available anyways) Ellen Ho! I met her last Summer through my sister from another mister, Flora and I just fell in love with her work. I did a photoshoot with her and she turned me from the geek that I am into this. Need I say more?

Ellen Ho HONG PHOTOGRAPHY

".....here comes the bride......"

2011-10-11T15:21:00.000-07:00

(Old picture of a turkey we made years ago....LOL)

Ah, it's finally fall. One of my most favorite seasons in the year (besides Summer)! Something about that smell of the crisp Autumn air mixed in with wet leaves that makes it SO comforting. It's not too cold where you have to bundle yourself up like you're living in the middle of the North Pole...but I love that feeling of that nippy feeling at your nose and cheeks when you're snuggling behind your scarf. And hello, who can forget Thanksgiving?!!

LOVE the colours on this tree.

Ever since I've been with Michael, one of my most favorite things about being with him is being able to celebrate with lots of a family (he has a HUGE family). In all my years of dating/relationships/wtf moments, nothing is better than being with someone who loves their family as much as you love yours. Although this year was a bit more quiet, it was nice to just sit around the table with turkey (my preferred choice in meat besides ham), stuffing, salad, rice..gravy...and PUMPKIN PIEEE..oh lord. Oh and we had roast beef at the Lee's too :p

I am very thankful for:

Running water, electricity, heat and everyday necessities. I watched this new reality show called Caveman, which is a show where scientists put a group of people into the wildnerness where they have to survive based on what cavemen/women use to do. From hunting their own meat with only arrows made out of sticks and rocks, eating plants and any small rodents/bugs to keep alive during the times THERE IS NO MEAT, starting a fire by friction against a rock...etc etc. Lets face it..although we're not living in the stone ages...there are people who can't afford to wash up, put food in their stomach, keep warm or have a place where they can call home. To those people...they are cavemen who are looking to just stay alive. Lets not lose sight of what we are so blessed with.
Family. My parents, brother and tartlet. The ones I would die for.
Friends. A true friend can tell you if you're being a crazy bitch or you're being ridiculous. I'm glad I have them.
My hubnut. We laugh, we cry (or I do), we fight, we make up, we ___________ (everything and anything else we can think of). That's what a relationship goes through when you're in love. And YAY! to being in love with you.

2011-10-07T14:23:00.000-07:00

The tartlet and Momma Lee. SOCUTE!!

2011-10-03T12:18:00.000-07:00

Maybe it's been the weather that is keeping me in to blog...but I'm glad I'm finally taking this time to jot down all these memories of my trip before I forget. I tend to have a problem where I'll give myself a "note to self" but by the time I get around to it the feeling/idea/memory is already pretty distant so I just give up and say "ahh I'll find something else to talk about." Bad, Maggie.

Anyways, to continue on with the food posts for Hong Kong! Now maybe I wasn't as adventurours (I can never get this right..so we'll keep it for LOLs) this time since I had to worry about Michael's stomach not dying if we were to eat anything crazy.. but we probably only scratched the mere surface of what HK cuisine has to offer.

Now a place everyone has to try (at least once) when they're in HK is Yung Kee over in Lan Kwai Fong AKA the clubbing district. A lot of tourists and foreigners are usually roaming these streets at night so if you're looking to converse freely in English while chugging back a couple beers or throwing down them shots..this is the place for you. OKAY, back to Yung Kee. So what this resto is famous for are their roasted/bbq goose. Not bbq duck....goose. Now I personally don't find the OMGSOGOOD factor for a bbq goose as I find it a bit more tough and not as flavorful of a duck...but this place is famous for it so I had to let Michael try. We actually came here with my Uncle Vince (dad's younger brother) and his fams one day for lunch and what do you know...it was "sold out." Fortunately, one of the managers knows my Uncle Ed (dad's older brother) so he lied to his staff that my Uncle Vince is a cousin (or something) so we ended up getting half of a goose. A lot of restos will usually keep a secret stash (bbq goose in this matter) for VIPS--just an FYI if you're ever out....I'd suggest dropping some names if you have to. LOL!

I love the way Michael's eyes are in this photo. Absolutely adorable!!!!! There's actually a story with getting here in the first place actually. So on this particular afternoon we had to meet my fams at the resto and being the "smart" kid that I am..I told them I knew where it was and they didn't have to bother coming to meet me at home. Lan Kwai Fong, I knew where it was. Of course I did. The MTR has a station called KWAI FONG. Of course it's the same thing!!! .......................Nope.

We ended up going 30 minutes out towards KWAI FONG! Here's a photo of how far I went when it was only 2 stops away.

Just thought I'd blow up the picture for you guys to REALLY see how much of an idiot I was. So yeah..don't make the same mistake as me guys! Central is home to LKF...not Kwai Fong. NOT, Kwai Fong.

Another place we visited was Din Tai Fung. Not sure if you guys read some of my other posts (the one about Momma Lee and my shopping trip to Bellevue this summer..) but DTF is a very famous resto in Shanghai. Momma Lee found this place during one of their many trips around the world and swears this is one of the best places in the world for XLBs (Little Dragon buns). There are a few locations worldwide and Bellevue is actually the closest location to us Vancouverites. I'd recommend this place if you are into XLBs and my favorite...their JaJiangMien (Saucey Noodles--literal meaning).

We also ordered a XLB with chicken meat (usually it's pork) and I actually found the chicken meat better than the pork. It's nice to change it up once in awhile and I'm probably going to order this when we head down to Bellevue in November. YUMMM!!

A third food post will be coming since I am now heading out the door to grab a sushi lunch with my sister from another mister...Flora! Hope everyone is enjoying their Monday afternoon :D

2011-10-02T12:20:00.000-07:00

One of the best things about Hong Kong (besides the shopping) is the food! Although some might argue Vancouver is a close 1st place when it comes to the dimsum..I can't say for the basic eats--noodles, rice dishes, desserts...DRINKS. I absolutely LOVE the food here and especially Cafe De Coral. HK's version of Vancouver's Hons...except 100x better.

A bowl of bbq duck/soy chicken noodles + a drink is like $2CDN. How can you beat that?? I think I had this at least 4-5 times during 1 week.

Another place I quite like in HK is Spaghetti House. Not only do they serve up super yummy pastas, their specials are SUPER cheap. A bowl of soup, pasta (full portion) and a drink can range from $68-$120 HKD ($8-$15CDN) for lunch and they even have set menus for 2 for a 4-5 course meal priced at $28CDN (ALTOGETHER). I didn't have it this time, but one dish I'd recommend you to try is their squid ink pastas or risotto. SOGOOD that you'd just have to try to understand what I mean.

Whenever I'm in Hong Kong I always have to have dinner with my Gramps (mom's dad) at Lei Garden. I'd compare it to Sun Sui Wah/Kirin/Gingeri of the likes here at home. Good food that is to be enjoyed in a family setting. We started off with their famous Pig's lung soup (tastes MUCH better than it sounds--trust me), bbq pork bites, braised fish and of course..ABALONE!!!!! Perhaps being one of my most fave seafood (next to oysters and scallops), it's not often that I'll have it. Probably considering it's quite expensive to eat on a regular basis and would probably shoot your cholestoral levels through the effin' roof. Anyhow, another reason why I had to order it was because Michael has never had one.

I have more food posts I want to do but I think I'll have to do that another day. Maybe tomorrow. :p

2011-10-01T17:37:00.000-07:00

Lantau Island aka Dai Yu San (literal meaning: Big Fish Mountain?) is one of the main attractions in Hong Kong (according to my dad constantly telling me over the phone). Most known for the giant Buddha statue that sits atop the mountain and where I took Michael here one afternoon by cable car. Now one of the ways to get up here is by bus...or like I said..cable car. A painful wait if you're here on a weekend that could take hours just to get on one. I've been here before and although there isn't too much to do ..it's quite nice if you're looking for something more relaxing to do.

I loved seeing Michael so excited whenever we did something fun and this was one of them. He loved the cable car ride but I must admit...can be quite nerve wrecking when you look downwards and can't help but think what would happen if the cabin decided to plunge to its death..with us in it!

The cabin ride itself was kinda nerve wrecking (just a bit) considering all that's protecting you are 4 glass walls and a metal bottom. If these babies were to break down you could spend all day up here ..or if the cable snaps....you're so out of luck! We had a choice between the normal peasant cabins or the "crystal" cabin which has a glass bottom (at a heavier price I might add). Being the common folk (LOL) that we are we chose with the normal cabin and honestly...it's the better choice.

1. 90% of the time you get your own cabin unless there's a bit of a line up. We ended up with another couple the way there but rode back together just the two of us.
2. The amount of time you are enjoying the view from the glass windows on the top, I don't think you're gonna spend much time looking down at the floor.
3. They will stuff as many groups as they can into the crystal cabins because there's less available

The Village itself isn't very big but there are a few souvenirs shops, coffee shops and restaurant cafes, and of course a 7-11. The walk over to the Buddha statue was relaxing and we even got to snap a few photos. Here is Michael giving Buddha a high-five and offering a bite of his Haagen Daaz ice cream bar.

The whole point of this island is for Buddha and of course, people aren't going to make him super accessible without some work. So here we were..climbing up what seemed like a billion steps.

"SUP?" says Buddha. I've walked this before the last time I came here with my family but my god....I did not have the unbearable heat last time and I am pretty sure I was a couple pounds lighter. I thought I was going to die on the way up but thanks to my heavy training years ago with my good friend and trainer, Anthony..I pushed myself to get up there. I was like a sweating whale.

At the top we took some photos and walked around before trecking back down the steps. I had to be real careful though because it was only a matter of time before someone would pass out from the heat and tumble downwards behind me. Scaryyyyy!

Michael really liked visiting Buddha and if you've never been before I'd suggest taking a visit yourself. It takes quite a bit to get here, but I think it's worth it considering it's a landmark site in Hong Kong.

We took the taxi to Lantau Island but you can also take the MTR here. We came here a couple days before we left so by this point we were already pretty lazy and the price didnt bother us that much since riding a taxi is dirt cheap here compared to Vancouver. $~300 HKD (~$38 CAD) for a 45 minute drive.

2011-09-19T17:29:00.000-07:00

It's been a hot minute since I've blogged (a real entry from what it seems) but I guess that can be excused from my recent vacay over to the motherland. :p It feels like it was just yesterday (February to be exact) when I posted that I would be going on holidays with the hubnut..and within months that thought became a reality.

It was Michael's first time travelling to Asia...actually...internationally to be exact so that was quite exciting all in itself. I've been there many times but I must admit..I still get the pre-flight jitters after all this time. And it doesn't help that 911 happened so tragically and unexpectedly too. I'm a paranoid freak but I did my best to keep calm infront of the flying virgin. We took the 245AM red eye on Cathay (my usual flight) so we could start fresh on a new day when we were to arrive in sunny (and effin' hot) Hong Kong.

When we got there we ended up taking the Airport Express (my first time) which is their MTR (transit system) line from the airport to the city. Man, if there's anything Vancouver needs to learn..is HK's speedy transit and technology. We are so behind the times!!!! An MTR train comes every 2 minutes and is reliable. Granted, I haven't taken public transit in Vancouver in years but my god...talk about convenience. The whole ride from the airport to the city took 20 minutes, air conditioned, AND comfortable while if you were travelling in a car, I'd say it'd take about 1 hr (with traffic).

This time around we stayed at my 1st uncle (dad's older brother) who lives in a very central part of the city whereas before I would usually stay at my 3rd uncle who lives rather far away from everything. I guess if I had to compare it to something I'd say it's like the boonies? I will note that apartment living is very common as it probably takes up 90% of the living situation for people there. Anyhow, it was great living with my 1st uncle because we were close to everything and travelling wasn't a huge part of our trip. Which was good for Michael because I didn't want to waste our time in the MTR when we could be using that time to shop (which we did!).

I really want to update more but I'm still pretty jetlagged so I'm going to update in parts. Stay tuned....!

2011-09-17T20:00:00.000-07:00

LOVE MY HUBNUT <3 HAPPY ONE YEAR!! (Sept 6)

(and we're back from vacay!!)

2011-08-31T14:39:00.001-07:00

Super cute bow ring that reminds me of Hello Kitty (Fine Finds)

Great polish..but pretty pricey for such a small bottle. However, dries real quick. (Fine Finds)

2011-08-22T17:54:00.000-07:00

Blessed with: Mackage Kenya, Michael Stars tee, Work Custom jeans, Spring flats, Michael Kors Hamilton Tote

LOVE stacking! Got the bracelet wrap from Holly Boutique, pearl bracelet from Michael's mom and bangles from Bombay Brow Bar.

2011-08-21T23:00:00.000-07:00

Besides communication, trust, and love..you gotta have attraction

"He ain't even gotta try to put the mack on
He just gotta give me that look,

..when he give me that look
Then the panties comin' off, off"

(Don't get this twisted, I'm still team Lil Kim..mmkay?)

2011-08-17T22:49:00.001-07:00

Michael's grammie's bday :)

2011-08-13T23:37:00.000-07:00

How can 2 wrongs make 1 right?
I love my tartlet :')

2011-08-13T23:34:00.000-07:00

2011-08-03T21:36:00.001-07:00

Michael bought me some flowers since I'm still sick <3

2011-07-31T22:34:00.001-07:00

2011-07-31T19:15:00.001-07:00

Gonna miss you, Dr. Bruh

2011-07-20T13:42:00.000-07:00

Made by Piano Bench Designs

I love love love my new necklace! I was doing some online shopping (browsing at this point) on Cargoh and landed on PBD's page. I instantly fell in love with the wiring look of her pieces and just had to ask if she could custom make me a necklace. I thought a cute little necklace with Michael's name on it would be perfect and she delivered!

I had a really good experience with PBD (unlike some bad experiences..experiencE actually) and would definitely order from her again. I really like the cute little note she wrote me and the pretty little box that came with it too. I don't know..for me the little things matter too. This is the reason why I love to buy my jewelery pieces from local (or international) artists because there's just SO much more effort and sincerity when it's made. And plus..I like my pieces somewhat one of a kind :p

2011-07-19T22:44:00.000-07:00

"When you're on the outside baby and you can`t get in

I will show you you're so much better than you know

When you're lost and you're alone and you cant get back again

I will find you darling and i will bring you home"

2011-07-19T22:33:00.000-07:00

ANNUAL NORDSTROM SUMMER SALE HAUL

Robbi and Nikki Cascade Tank (in beige)

Ali Ro Completer Jacket

Ann Taylor Exotic Perfect Pump (SUPER comfy) and very comparable to CL's Simple 100's

I took the plunge!!!

Christian Louboutin's New Simple 120MM

Another year, another summer sale at Nordstrom! For the past 3 years, Momma Lee and I have made it our mission to stop by every year (at a diff state) for this sale. Although this tradition is still rather toddlerish..it has become one of my most fave events for the year. Not only do I get to spend some hard earned dough..I get to spent some quality time with my beautiful Momma Lee.

I took the day off on Friday and we made our way down to Bellevue. Border waits were CRAZY for a Friday morning. I couldn't believe how long we had to wait! (1.5 hours) considering it was still a work day. Ah well, we were in no rush. Stopped off for some Jack in the Box (love!) and some starbys but since I am battling a cold..I had to stop off at a Starbucks midway to gargle some salt water. Teehee! Soon enough we arrived at Bellevue Westin (I swear, this should be my vacay home) and changed to peruse the sale at Nordstrom. We have a strategy when it comes to shopping at these sales and the real shopping didn't start until the next day.

Basically we shopped the whole weekend and I spent half of it coughing up a lung and trying to find my CL's. Nordstrom on the first night told me they ran out of my size for the New Simples, which was okay because I was going to buy them from my personal shopper at Neiman. Went there the next day...it too was sold out. Whatever...I decided that I could wait. Went back to Nordstrom to continue shopping and I thought I'd just ask if they had my size (again, just for kicks)..and what do you know? The sales lady from the night before lied to me and really they did have a pair or 2 left. I guess she didn't look hard enough? Ah well, no commission for her I guess :p PS. I'm going to baby these shoes like a mother eff.

On the way back on Sunday, I started getting these..fuzzies in my right eye. For an hour I was wiping my eye every 5 minutes because I just felt like there was something in there and it kept producing fuzzies. It was really annoying but we had to make our way back. Driving was rather dangerous because soon after..my LEFT eye started going crazy too. Turned out, I got an eye infection..IN BOTH EYES and omg..I have never felt so much pain in my eyes. They were so swollen and tender to the touch I thought my eyeballs were going to fall out. Luckily, Polysporin makes eyedrops for eye infections so Michael bought me some (thanks <3). The next day I went to the doctors since my throat was doing any better..and lucky me.....throat AND eye infection. Now I'm on antibiotics and my eyes look like baseballs :( I had to throw away a lot of make up--and cant wear any for a few days to a week. I feel really naked when I'm at work..but what can you do? Health comes first. :)

2011-07-19T22:20:00.000-07:00

ANNUAL NORDSTROM SUMMER SALE SHOPPING TRIP!
W/ MOMMA LEE

2011-07-04T17:17:00.000-07:00

Weekend getaway to Whistler :)

Outfit for first dinner in Whistler

Crab and Scallop cakes + Scallops ceviche @ Quattro

Prawns + scallops + clams spaghetti @ Quattro

Lamb tenderloin @ Quattro

Tuscan chicken penne @ La Bocca

Spinach and sundried tomatoes fritatta

Outfit for dinner date 2

Spot prawns sashimi + crab roll in egg crepe + Beach Angels oysters @ Araxi

Scallops + Beef tenderloin + whole lobster @ Araxi

HAPPY CANADA DAY!!

2011-06-16T21:47:00.000-07:00

1. Christian Louboutin Very Prive Platform Pump
2. Christian Louboutin Rolanda Pump

Should I?

2011-06-13T16:06:00.000-07:00

Some people collect stamps...coins or baseball cards. I collect perfume. I have more than enough scents to last me for the next 10 years...but I just can't stop!! My latest addition from Momma Lee when she was in Barcelona. This was one of my choices for Christmas but she got me Marc Jacob's Daisy instead (another favorite of mine).

2011-06-13T15:59:00.001-07:00

Practice safe snax! Always use a condiment! (present from Michael)

2011-06-12T20:26:00.000-07:00

Blessed with: Whitney Eve blazer, Twenty8Twelve tank, Taverniti So skinnies, Spring booties

Loving Sienna Miller's line Twenty8Twelve as of late. Check out some of her pieces at Holly in Gastown and I picked up my Whitney Eve blazer at Jennyfleur Loves in Yaletown. I'm really beginning to become a snob when it comes to my clothing because A) I don't want to be wearing what every other girl in Vancouver has (Aritzia..sorry..I still love you!) B) Quality over Quantity.

I don't think I've bought anything from a mall (except a pair of tights from Garage) in months. Your local boutiques and shops in this city carry some amazing pieces so take some time to introduce yourself to them. I guarantee a great purchase!

BBB- W 4th Edition

2011-06-12T20:02:00.000-07:00

Bombay Brow Bar's media event

On Friday I was invited to Bombay Brow Bar's media event at their newest location over on 4th. I had the honour of supporting these two amazing ladies, whom I have grown to love over the past year and a half after meeting them at their opening of their first location in Yaletown. Ravy and Amy have been working hard to open up their second location and I'm so happy for the success they have created for themselves.

Their new location is absolutely gorgeous, still holding the BBB justice to pink! A much larger space for us brow addicts to enjoy some brow pampering. And who can forget that chai!? I myself bought a tub last year and surprisingly have lasted me this long--so yummy and refreshing. Definitely better than Starbucks in my opinion.

Enjoy their newest location yourself if Yaletown BBB is not in your books for the day!

Bombay Brow Bar Kitsilano
2206 West 4th Ave
Vancouver, BC
604-734-BROW (2769)

Monday to Friday 10am-7pm
Saturday 10am-6pm (or to 7pm by appointment only)
Sunday 11am-5pm

Congratulations, BBB girls!

2011-06-12T19:40:00.000-07:00

MAGLEE CRABPOT

I'm no professional cook/chef but I do enjoy cooking up a good meal. Spot prawns season is coming to a close and I thought why not have our own little crab pot at home? I went to T&T after work one night and gathered up some goodies. One large crab, spot prawns, clams, corn, potatoes and sausages..just like the original Crab Pot does it!!

The clean up was a bit of a hassle but it was super yummy and easy to make. Basically you just throw in eveything in a pot and let it boil. I use the Costco seasoning salt in the end for a bit of kick as I personally enjoy the natural flavours seafood has. Melt some butter and you're ready to go!!!

Love for the Ears

2011-06-12T15:47:00.000-07:00

2011-06-04T18:01:00.000-07:00

Sometimes a girl just needs her Momma...

My parents leave on an average of every 2 months..travelling the world and spending that time together they always dreamed about. I'm fairly adjusted to them gone now..but it's only a matter of time before I start missing Momma Lee like mad. She is the strength in my life and I don't know why the world is always testing me when she is NOT around. I've experienced some of my worst moments while she has been gone and even though she is on the other side of the world..she never lets me spiral out of control with emotions and keeps me in check. She is my inspiration and I wish to be as amazing of a mother that she has been to my own children one day.

I really love my Momma Lee.

2011-06-04T17:51:00.000-07:00

Michael broke my berry and I'm now on a loaner Curve 8520. Pretty sad :(

Love for the Ears

2011-06-04T17:45:00.001-07:00

LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS SONG.

2011-05-10T22:15:00.001-07:00

YOU'S A PSYCHO!

Some girls just can't take a hint.

2011-05-08T22:42:00.000-07:00

I recently bought Keri Hilson's album because I've really grown to love her. I'd like to think she's like my modern day Ciara. Now if you guys know me, you'd know that when Ciara first came out..I did not like her. But eventually she just grew on me and now she's one of my most fave artists. And Keri Hilson happened to turn out like that too. Both beautiful and talented ladies. Another thing you have to know about me is...I still BUY cds. If it's someone I really dig...I will support.

Anyhow, I was listening through her cd and heard this song. Now...she must have written this song for me because this song sums up my life when it comes to relationships. I took too many wrong turns when it came to men in this life of mine and I had to pay the price. All the tears..the hurt I've been through for guys.....fuck.

But that is..until I met Michael.

Take a listen. Warning: You might cry (like I did/do...yeah LOL)

2011-05-06T16:07:00.001-07:00

I've been eyeing this dress for months now..and finally it's mine!

2011-05-03T12:15:00.001-07:00

2011-05-02T21:40:00.000-07:00

Latest purchases. Oui!

Alexander McQueen Classic Skull Scarf (From Michael)

Viktor&Rolf Flowerbomb

Wildfox Boyfriend Tank in Militant

2011-05-02T21:26:00.000-07:00

Little did we know..this guy would be accepted into med school..... :p

Congrats bruh!!!!!

2011-05-02T21:20:00.000-07:00

A contender for what I'd choose to eat for my last meal on earth.

2011-05-02T21:15:00.000-07:00

Emily B Gaga with Momma Lee.

2011-04-25T21:59:00.000-07:00

I couldn't have asked for a better weekend with Michael! This mini trip of ours was to celebrate my birthday a couple weeks ago and like always he spoiled me like crazy! We left on Friday morning at 630am but even then it was too late for the border. Everyone was heading down South for some shopping and we were no exception. We decided that we should line up for the Aldergrove border (closed from midnight to 8am) considering every where else was 2 hours long already and by the time we got to Aldergrove it was already a 45 minute wait. It wasn't too bad cause it was a super nice morning and we were over to the US by 830. Went for some good ol' IHOP breakfast and headed for the highway.

We stopped off at the outlets first but didn't find anything too special. I also tried my first Subway salad. ....They should really stick to sandwich making only. LOL. After I drove the rest of the way to Bellevue which wasn't too far. Checked in at the Westin (I swear by this hotel) and we took a nap which lasted for 3 hours. Woke up and it was already time for dinner! Cheesecake factory and all that jazz. Michael is in love with their Banana Cream cheesecake and I LOVE their keylime pie cheesecake. I like to think I've had my fair share of CF, but their keylime cheesecake is just amazing! I would eat it all day if I could. :p After that we headed for a night stroll in the mall and then went back to the hotel for some hot tubbing.

The next day we went for lunch at Blue C Sushi. It's not that terrible, but I wouldn't say it's amongst the top sushi joints I've been to. It does what it needs to do and I'm still a big fan of the revolving sushi belt. I wish we still had more of these in Vancouver. After that we did more shopping (obviously) and then around 6ish we went for dinner at Crab Pot. Service sucked BALLS but the food was pretty good. I love seafood, LOVE. Something about smashing your food with a hammer is quite enjoyable.

I don;'t know what happened but that night I had an allergic reaction to the sheets on our bed. I think the load I had, had too much detergent and either it wasn't washed off properly OR maybe a reaction to the chlorine from the hot tub. :( I don't know but it was TERRRIBLEEEEE. The whole ride home was an itchfest and I just wanted to cry. Luckily we got back to Michael's house and his mom gave me some meds and I got to wash up. Ugh.

Also, Michael surprised me with an Alexander McQueen scarf for my birthday!!! Last month I told him how I wanted to get this scarf but he made a huge deal about how it's not worth the cost so I didn't buy it. Then little did I know he just didn't want me to get it cause he wanted to buy it for me :)

2011-04-19T11:25:00.001-07:00

2011-04-14T16:51:00.000-07:00

Blessed with: Mackage Kenya leather jacket, Evil Twin blouse, Babakul harems, Aldo Beige pumps, Aldo braided skinny belt, Deux Lux Duffle bag

Wore this to work yesterday after some inspiration and a very long talk with my girl Hans who was on her way to Fashion Week! Gotta love my ladies of Yaletown who keep me inspired and going against the grain when it comes to my clothing! I am by no means a "fashionista" as I would never compare to some of the geniuses/beautiful women in this city...but thank you for all those who love the way I dress and take the time to compliment. I take pride in my coordination. HA!

2011-04-13T18:48:00.000-07:00

So I guess you can tell I'm on team Chris Brown.....

2011-04-12T16:41:00.001-07:00

"Kush rolled, glass full, I prefer the better things
Niggas with no money act like money isn't everything
I'm having a good time, they just trying to ruin it
Shout out to the fact that I'm the youngest nigga doing it"

-Drake

2011-04-11T16:36:00.000-07:00

Maggie Lee.

Daughter. Sister. Aunt. Girlfriend/Wife. Pre-sale professional. Re-sale caterpillar. Soon to be...author?

Yes, I am being serious. For the past year or so I have been toying with the idea of putting a book together. I actually didn't even think of this until my sister (of all people) suggested it to me. I have fulfilled a lot of my dreams and goals up to this point in my life ..and I guess I want to take on a different challenge right now. I still want to go back to school to get my degree in Urban Land Economics as I eventually want to become an independent developer..but being an author is something I'd like to do as well.

I know, me? Writing? Yeah..my grammar is pretty terrible but my passion for what I want to write about is there. It's a growing educational process which is why I think I can do it over a time span. Aghh..so many things to think about. Sigh.

2011-04-05T15:56:00.001-07:00

Untitled by maggie_onair featuring leather high heels

2011-04-04T17:23:00.000-07:00

The girls that made my highschool life.

Emily B Gaga

2011-04-04T17:13:00.000-07:00

Look at them lashes on this girl!!!

2011-04-04T17:03:00.000-07:00

My GO-TO Peeps

Self Love:
Hair: Anita Lee at her in-house studio in Burnaby
Esthetician: Ahn Ha at her in-house studio/salon in Burnaby
Tanning Studio: Beach Bumm's Tanning in Coquitlam
Nails and Massages: Tranquility Spa in Yaletown
Brows: Bombay Brow Bar in Yaletown
Eyelash Extensions: Noir Lash Lounge in Yaletown

Professionals:
Photography: Tomasz Wagner (BBY), Ellen Ho (VAN)
Mortgage Brokers: Vickie Ho (BMO), John Hanh (TD), Marna Dueck (TD)
Real Estate Lawyers: Grace Ling at Alvin Hui Law Corp in Vancouver
Realtors: ME, Dad Lee, God-dad Chan

Car Related Professionals:
Mechanic: Piano at Excellence Auto in East Van
Autobody: Autobody ONE in Richmond

Shopping!:
Vintage Jewelry: Dotted Loop in East Van
Up to date fashions: Boudoir in Yaletown, Holly Boutique in Gastown, Fine Finds in Yaletown, Obakki in Gastown
Unique pieces: MONTHLY ARTISANS FAIR!!!

2011-04-04T16:52:00.001-07:00

*chirp chirp* Birds Nest...JYEA!!

2011-04-04T16:49:00.000-07:00

missing the I in Choi.

Possibly one of the best concerts I've been to! David Choi has such an amazing voice it would be a crime NOT to see him. Definitely someone I'd watch again.

Concerts to Date..

BSB
Spice Girls
B4-4
Forgot....what happened for the next couple years
John Legend (#1 fave concert to date)
Kanye
N.E.R.D
Rihanna
Lil Wayne
T-Pain
Keri Hilson
Snoop
Lil Kim (#2 fave concert to date)
Shawn Desman (HAHAHA)
BSB (again)
David Choi
I feel like I'm missing a couple...

2011-04-04T16:40:00.001-07:00

Emily B Gaga

2011-04-04T16:39:00.000-07:00

She had to fundraise for her school so she went to the bottle depot with her mom. She stepped in and she asked "Why does it smell in here?!"

2011-04-04T16:34:00.000-07:00

These guys pretty much sum up my relationship with Michael.

2011-03-31T16:53:00.000-07:00

Featured March Pair for Herro Hachi

Blooper Reel.....

I dedicate today (March 31st) to my Momma Lee because...well...she's Momma Lee!

2011-03-26T23:50:00.000-07:00

" The shoes on my feet
I've bought it
The clothes I'm wearing
I've bought it
The rock I'm rockin'
I've bought it
'Cause I depend on me
If I wanted the watch you're wearin'
I'll buy it
The house I live in
I've bought it
The car I'm driving
I've bought it
I depend on me "

I know, I know...a little cheesey to quote Destiny's Child 'Independent Woman' but for 5 years now, I have sworn by these words. It has been my motivation and desire to do all of these things because I depend on myself, and myself only. Yes, I have the love and support from my family and man but at the of the day no one is going to do something for me.

Growing up I was spoiled. My parents gave me everything I needed...and wanted. I had no idea what it meant to earn my own money and spend my own money because everything was done/bought for me. I floated by watching friends get after school jobs while I sat at home comfortably wasting away my parents hard earned money. I didn't know any better because money was never an issue. Truth: I was powered by mommy and daddy.

During 2nd semester of first year, I ended up being on academic probation. Pretty fails if you ask me as everything I took wasn't even hard. But it was because I didn't really care much about it. I had no motivation because there really wasn't much for me to think about it. That's when it hit. My parents said they weren't going to support me financially because I wasn't going to be going to school. So..I got a job. ...But where? I had no experience..so who was going to hire me? I handed out applications to EVERYWHERE! No luck at all. So parents came to the rescue once again (but very last time) after my dad was contacted by a previous coworker who worked under him but has moved on with another company. They needed someone who can do some admin work and where promotions were possible. I jumped at the chance. I eventually became the youngest Sales Representative of the company I was at and sold at 6 different major projects.

It was really hard at first because I didn't know how to interact with people. When you're fresh out of highschool, you'd think you've seen it all..but the different walks of life you encounter when you're in the work field..you start to see and realize that the world isn't just black and white. Yes or No. With wisdom, comes maturity. And maturity comes the responsibility of yourself and everything you do. No more help from Momma and dad...just me. Looking back I didn't appreciate this fact when I first started out (I was just 19! LOL) but there's nothing better in life than knowing you did everything for yourself with your own 2 hands. The clothes I wear, the car I drive, the food I feed myself with...I. DID. IT.

I am exactly where I want to be.

HAPPY 5 YEARS, MAGLEE

March 17, 2006- and it continues...

Ipa Nima

2011-03-26T23:31:00.000-07:00

Momma Lee just came back from her month long trip and came back with an Ipa Nima bag for all! "All 3 colours within 15 minutes" says my dad.

I never heard of Ipa Nima until today so I did some research. Created by a fashion designer in Hong Kong who moved over to Vietnam in 1995 with a style fusion of "East meets West." A lot of her bags aren't exactly my style but I think Momma Lee found a good find. Celeb fans include: Hilary Clinton, Toni Braxton, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Kelly Osbourne etc etc.

The leather is SO soft I want to rub it all over my face.

Momma's DAY

2011-03-24T23:59:00.000-07:00

I know it's still 2 months away but I'm alway trying to find something special for Momma Lee. Every Momma's day I always buy her a cauliflower--the only flower you can eat :) a pair of shoes, and whatever else I think of.

This year I'm buying her a pair of red TOMS as she lovessssss red anything. Plus, it helps when we have certain YT boutiques that have become our personal merchandisers. We can pretty much get anything they have in stores to our sizes if they are sold out. Pros and Cons I guess when you think about it :p With that said I got another pair (in grey) for me!

ANDDDD I'll probably buy her another trip despite her jet setting ways is already taking away ample time away from me. :(

Total TOMS Count: 5 LOL!!!

2011-03-22T22:02:00.000-07:00

Blessed with: Deux Lux Decker Duffle in Hunter Green

I bought this back in December (and did a mini post) but I had my brother take this photo for me a couple weeks ago. Pictures DO NOT do this bag justice. A little Bottega Veneta-esque aint it?

Bellevue Haul

2011-03-15T16:38:00.000-07:00

Essie: Marshmallow and Adore A Ball

David and Goliath: Hasta La Pasta!

Michael Kors: Hamilton Large Tote (picture doesn't do it justice)

Michael Kors: Double Breasted British Khaki Trench

TOMS: Glitter Pink Tiny (the whole reason I went to Bellevue in the first place)

Nike: Toki ND Dark Denim (just a gift I gave Michael before we left)

5 Things About Me

2011-03-07T01:25:00.000-08:00

I am the epitome of eating my feelings. I will go from a size 4 to a size 8 ..to a size 6 to a 4 again..8? I eat when I'm sad and I eat when I'm happy. But somewhere in between I will work out like crazy then eventually let the weather keep me away. This is usually when I get chubs. Like right now.
I will name my future toy poodle, Hammond (Hammy) Chee. It's a name Michael and I made up one day while combining both of our last name to name our furry friend. I LOVE ham and cheese..so it was only fitting to create the name Ham-ond-Chee(se). Get it? No? Well even if you don't..you will have to now...and don't steal my name!
I am super clumbsy. I will probably be walking on a clear sidewalk and still end up tripping with my hands all scratched up. Ohh :(
My parents designed the entire Lee Palace. EXCEPT for our garden.
Growing up I never liked the name Maggie, and wanted to change my name to Lisa. Or Chloe. It just sounded so unique to me at the time.

2011-03-07T00:46:00.000-08:00

Cheese, bitch!

Blessed with: Marc Jacobs Dual Colour Squared Aviator Sunglasses

2011-03-07T00:26:00.000-08:00

VI

months (march 6 actually) will turn into years which will turn into decades..and so on and so on..

Wet Seal's 2 fingers LOVE ring and my diamond encrusted band.

My Superman

2011-03-05T00:38:00.000-08:00

Tell you that there is no other place that I'd rather be

There is no other face that I'd rather see

The way that you do me -Is something like a movie

"Waking up to you is just like waking up to Superman"
It’s a bird; It’s a Plane and -Superman

I can be your Lois Lane- Superman

There ain’t nothing you can do, I just wanna be with you

And I hope you feel it too, you’re my Superman

Dr. Bruh...

2011-03-03T00:40:00.000-08:00

So if you haven't read on my twitter or facebook already...yes, my brother has officially applied for med school over in Antigua and Grenada. It was a hard decision for him to even consider the possibility of leaving home but he has pulled the trigger and decided that it is time.

The reason why he's choosing to go to med school somewhere else is because the competition for UBC is just way too hard. The chances of him getting in is a lot lower vs if he was to go somewhere else. St Georges and American University of Antigua (of Medicine) are his two choices and both applications have been sent in. He already has an interview with AUA this April and still waiting to hear back from St. Georges for their interview. If all goes well, he'll be leaving this August for the next 7 years.

I actually had to go with him to St Georges conference meeting in Vancouver about..2 weeks ago (and glad that I did) and learned about the scheduling of the next 7 years. Since he's still in the 2nd year of UBC, he needs to go through the pre-med program. The whole med program itself is set up into 7 tiers.

1st year- Pre Med 1

2nd year- Pre Med 2

3rd year- Pre Med 3

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4th year- Med 1

5th year- Med 2

6th year- Med 3 (start of clinical rotations)

7th year- Med 4 (completion of clinical rotations)

I don't think he'll need to spend all 3 years in pre med as he already has UBC credits so he might start out at year 2 or 3. Then in 6th and 7th year he gets to do clinical rotations in actual hospitals in either the USA or UK. Then when he wants to come back to practice in Canada he will have to do tests to certify him again. I feel pretty bad for him...I mean for the next 7-10 years he will be living in books...but I guess that's the sacrifice he'll have to live with to get to his dream.

I mean..he hasn't even been accepted yet but I know...I know the chances of him getting in are like 99.999999% in his favour. I read his med application essay and omgg....I wanted to cry. I couldn't believe him, my dorky little brother, could write such an amazing piece of work. Although I will be sad my bff in the house will be gone...I am very happy for him. He has always amazed me when it came to education and I am so proud of the accomplishments he has done with his schooling. I really hope he gets in because I know this will only be one step closer to his dream.

...And plus..can't complain that the 2 schools he applied to are on beachy islands! LOL!!

PS. He wants to specialize in Plastic/Reconstructive surgery.

UO..You suck!

2011-03-03T00:14:00.000-08:00

Urban Outfitters Cooperative Suede Platform Wedge $58

That is until you press checkout and UO slaps on a $20 shipping fee...plus additional taxes that might hit you when it goes through customs (usually around 30-40 bucks)! Man, talk about a robbery. I mean yeah..$20 isn't much but as an avid REVOLVEclothing shopper...free shipping is the business! It really does save a bit in your pocket especially if taxes are a possibility. I'm gonna let the shipping prices go this time...but chances are I'm not going to order from them again unless I'm gonna be buying a lot more. Kinda makes it not worth it in the end I think if it's just one item...

Anyways, bought these on Sunday and I'm hoping to see them within 10 days. I've been looking everywhurr for a pair of suede grey shoes. Aldo has a black pair but they overcharge WAY too much for their shoddy quality shoes that will probably break down on you within a matter of a months time. I love some of the stuff Aldo brings out..but a tad pricey.

Emily B. Gaga

2011-03-02T15:32:00.001-08:00

"Don't steal my corn..bitch"

Sleeping gets Emily B Gaga's approval!

"Yeah, I have a cat face on my bag. Got swag y'all"

"Gonna sprinkle some peppa in this soup"

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